MIND RULES OVER HEART

Learning and knowing someone is a life long process because deep down humans have an insightful tendency to keep on changing their attitude or behavior with time and life experiences. Judging someone, within a specific time limit (within 3 years, 3 months, 3 weeks, 3 days, 3 hours, 3 minutes), on the other hand is an analytical skill that human race has high-handedly developed since ages. This strategy to judge someone quickly helps us to save time and move on.

The ability to make spontaneous remarks, comments and decision is the brain child of a highly intelligent and intellectual mind. This brain is not only physically situated on the top of the body but also has mental strength, logical power and staff support to stay at the top of an organization. None of the other body parts of the organization have the power, desire or status to challenge or question the autocratic decision of the supremo and hence they dare not. The fear factor works supremely and supremacy enjoys its status.

The practice to judge someone or someone’s capabilities instantaneously is quite pragmatic. It is practical when the decision is made only for that particular moment or incident and is based on some experiential evidence that the nominated authority thinks that it has observed. Mind you that this so called observation might be a self-possessed obsession as well. The same practicality transforms into a nasty habit or a prejudiced prediction or a harmful addiction when a momentary decision is turned into a permanent tag or a life long label for the person under scrutiny.

The intriguing fact is that this labelling capacity is not at all there in childhood and hence cannot be termed as natural or congenital by any means. It is not found even in those adolescents, adults or mature beings who have been conscious enough to keep their child-like behavior purely intact and alive. This skill nurtures under the influence of an highly ambitious power-packed mind which not only indulges in ruling over the childish heart but also enjoys demeaning the spirited soul.

Mann is bad case....isn't it?