Wednesday, May 30, 2012


Today, I wish to share with you an article which I wrote some 14 years back on 16th August, 1998.

I was 29 years old at that point of time having got married at the age of 27. That, I was still able to not only write that article but also share it with my wife proves the open-minded and kind nature of my wife and the fact that she not only shared the article with her dear friends but also stored it in her diary to make it possible for me to share it today with you, explains her liking of the article alongwith her spirits soulful nature.

I hope, you too like the article even after 14 years because the issue expressed in the said article has gone even more worst today. No wonder because mental desires to earn name, fame and money never vanish without presence of a conscious soul.

Please do feel free to comment and correct my observations in the article if your soul forces you to do so.

Now, please do read the non-edited article consciously and lovingly:

PURUSH-SHETRA (a TV programme)

Recently when I was watching an episode of Purush-shetra on women liberalisation. I was irritated to observe the knowledge, attitude and thinking of Miss. Divya Seth who is the anchor of this popular talk show.

I am listing below the main points which I could gather from that episode :-

(a) Miss Divya Seth and many participants in the show firmly believed that the only way a woman can attain liberalisation is by having a career.

(b) Her attitude towards a house wife was - " Its great that you are a just a housewife but what else do you do to live..?"

Let me clarify  before putting across my views on on true women liberalisation that Miss Divya Seth is not an exception who thinks in this way and in this direction. I believe that there are many more thinkers like that than I can ever imagine.

For me, women liberalisation is a state of of women where she is treated equally in the society, where she is absolutely free to take her own decisions, where in real meaning she is a joint wheel of a bullock cart called life as an old proverb says.

Many women believe that they will be treated equally only when they earn money and become financially self-dependent by doing so. Career women, as the society terms them, often achieve this kind of success and this material success generally climb on their heads and make them even more egoistic.

Career is status symbol and money is like earning respect for innocent women. Men but, because he is  very well aware soulfully about the fraud and illusion such status and success is, still does not treat them equally. Instead, they get irritated by her behaviour and I personally feel that this is the main or major reason for unhappy or broken marriages.

Indian women compare themselves with Indian men or with the women of the west on a limited account of career and hence find them liberalised. Well, this is a very inappropriate comparison. Firstly, because it is not true as they too are not liberalised and are still slave of their minds. Secondly, because the cultures are different, the nature is different, the population is different and the hence the job opportunities too are totally different.

Just imagine that in India, where we already have a huge unemployment problem, if all Indian women decide to have a career oriented life in order to get social recognition and equal treatment - what will happen? Does that type of job opportunities exist in India? Do all women really and desperately need to have a career?

Yes, it is quite necessary and understandable if in a family the income of males is just Rupees 2000 - 3000/- per month and the female decides to help the family by earning extra income for betterment of living standards and survival but what is the need of having a career for a women whose family males already earn more than 15000 to 20000 Rupees per month? Is having heaps of Saree, jewellery, cars, bungalows, air-conditioners, lipsticks, vanity bags etc. etc. etc. so important and necessary?

Indian women will have to soulfully justify the need for thriving for a career otherwise she will be snatching jobs from really poor and needy people and thereby further aggravating the problem of poverty and unemployment. Vote greedy governments are already trying to compound the problem by offering 33% reservation to women.

Moreover, being a housewife is a full time job in itself. It is a very important, demanding and self-satisfying job. A women not only needs to be a good finance manager, personal manager, HRD manager, architect, artist, interior designer, renowned teacher, expert dietitian and cook etc. etc. etc to become a honourable housewife but also needs to possess a spiritual, loving, understanding, caring, kind, yummy soul (i call it L.U.C.K.Y. SOUL).

House management is in no way a meagre job. To me it is a very very very important job and men will have to learn paying for it by offering priceless love and honour. A housewife does a very very very important job of building a nation by giving cultured, sentimental, sensitive and knowledgeable generation.

So, next time when you say " I do not want to be just a housewife", please think again and ask yourself " Do I have the talent and qualities of becoming a honourable housewife?"

I also agree and understand that there is an urgent need for today's men to change their chauvinist attitude towards women. There is no denying the fact that men has treated women very very very badly but still women should avoid becoming like men and search for meaning of true liberalisation instead.

Women must demand for her right of equality and I am pretty sure that she can get it too but having a career is not the only way to get it. There are so many other ways too to get equality and respect both. Women will have to try to find out their own way to search true liberalisation.

I can very well understand a woman's desire of letting her creativity, her talent, her skills known to the world. It is a perfect human desire which is very good to grow as a human being. Can we imagine a world without Lata Mangeshkars, Indira Gandhis, Oprahs, Madonnas, P T Ushas, Kiran Bedis etc. etc. etc. to name only a few. The world would be very very very dull without divine feminine power...isn't it? But then today's women also very very very lovingly need to learn to be modest about their strength and power so that their success does not make them as immodest as men are.

If women really want to live a career oriented life, they must also think a lot before falling in love, before marrying or before planning family life. They do need to discuss all pros and cons with their would be partners of life. They need to make them understand their needs, their dreams, their desires quite openly and they also need to understand their partners needs, their dreams, their desires.

That is how the chemistry of togetherness works with the help of catalyst of love between two atoms of hydrogen called husband and one atom of oxygen called wife to form a complete, happy, prosperous and loving family.

Do you really possess that spirit..??

If yes....
please go ahead and adopt the divine career of being a true husband and wife.

Or else....
please wait till the right moment comes to adopt you as a true husband or wife.


Monday, May 21, 2012

बैंड, बाजा, बरात

एक वक़्त था
जब बैंड, बाजा, बरात का इंतज़ार हुआ करता था हमें
पर अब...

जबसे बेसुरे जुड़े हैं गायक
कानफोडू हुए हैं बैंड-बाजे
शोरगुल मचाते हैं DJ
और दिखावटी हुई है बरात...

सिर्फ बीमार ही नहीं
अस्पताल पहुँच जाते हैं होशवाले भी ढोल धमाका सुन...

समझ नहीं आता
किस तरह शान्ति की दरख्वास्त की जाए
इन तमाशबीनो से..!!

भला हो "सत्य मेव जयते" का
और मसले के बुरहानपुरी इलाज का
सुझाई है जिसने हमें

नो बैंड, नो बाजा, नो बरात अपनाने की तरकीब

अब भी हमपर रुतबा जमाना चाहतें हैं गर हमारे हबीब
तो लिफ़ाफ़े वाला व्यवहार ना अब होगा उन्हें हमसे नसीब..!!

सबसे बेहतर है ज़िन्दगी को सादगी से हर पल जीना
बिना इस बात की फ़िक्र करते हुए की
गलतियाँ हुई हमसे क्या जो बना गई कई रकीब
या फिर ये की
किस तरह बन सकता है इन्सान हर दिल अजीज..!!

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

भारतीय दैनिक भास्कर

भारतीय दैनिक भास्कर:

रोज देखते हैं हम 'दैनिक भास्कर' समाचार पत्र को
ये दंभ भरा एलान करते हुए


"वो भारत का सबसे बड़ा समाचार पत्र समूह है"

आज तक हमने सुना या पढ़ा नहीं मगर
असल सूरज (भास्कर) को देते हुए ये बयान
क्या सूर्य महाशय अब तक अपने बड़प्पन, आकार और शक्ति से हैं अनजान..??या फिर अपनी सफलता का शान से एलान करना
सिर्फ भारतीय दैनिक भास्कर की पहचान..??

मांगी जो राय हमारी sms से
अब्दुल कलाम और अन्ना हजारे ने जब
लोकपाल और भ्रष्टाचार मुक्ति पे दिए अपने-अपने बयान
तो लिख भेजा हमने भी
की कलाम साहब एकदम सही है ये कहने में


जब तक हम खुद ना मुक्त होंगे भ्रष्टाचारी स्वभाव से
तब तक कैसे हो सकता है पुरे समाज का कल्याण..?
जब ना जवाब मिला दैनिक भास्कर से
ना ही छापा उन्होंने हमारा हिंदी भाषी ये कलाम
तो समझ गए हम की संसारी व्यव्सायिकता से हम शायद अनजान
तो भेजा फिर अंग्रेजी में हमने ये होकर के बे-शान;

Do you know why Anna took 72 years to demand for LOKAYUKT as first-aid for India..??





May be he innocently believed that MPs remained completely corruption free from 1947 till now


Now he is in so much hurry that he and his intelligent team is unable to wait for 22 years more to cure a permanent disease.

The eager mind may be wins because Anna and his team still believes that 121 crore Indian LOK are really bhrashtachaar MUKT.

It really does not matter to Anna and his team that almost daily we read in 'Dainik Bhaskar' that some LOKPAL is busy in exposing corrupt government Babus but we also know that such exposure & finding still does not stop or fear other government Babus from being corrupt...does it?

फिर २९ और ३० अप्रैल के दैनिक भास्कर में हमने
पुरे-पुरे पृष्ठ भरे देखे "माता-पिता देवो भव:" के नाम पर
इतने सारे विज्ञापन देखे हमने महान
की हमारे भीतर के कवि को लेकर संज्ञान
लिखना ही पड़ा ये


माता-पिता देवो भव: के विज्ञापन रोज दैनिक भास्कर में देख हमें यूँ लगा
की माता-पिता ही देव हैं अगर तो बाकी सब क्या इंसानी शैतान..?
हैं अगर शैतान सारी संताने
तो पैदा करने वाला ही फकत कैसे कहलाता है भगवान्..?

सिर्फ माता-पिता को देव समझना
ऐसा ही है जैसे
कलम को ही लेखक समझता कोई नादान

पढ़ कर ये बातें
बोले दैनिक भास्कर के प्रधान
की ऐसे ही विज्ञापनों की वजह से ही
तो हुए हैं हम धनवान..!!

सूर्य मगर उनका तर्क सुन अब तक है हैरान..!!

फिर ५ मई के दैनिक भास्कर में
पढ़ा हमने चाणक्य का ये सुविचार

"व्यक्तियों को जरुरत से ज्यादा सरल व ईमानदार नहीं होना चाहिए.
सीधे तने के पेड़ सबसे पहले काटे जाते हैं."

इस सु सु विचार पे भड़क उठा 'मनीष' का मन
और लिख बैठा वो ये जबरन
की चाणक्य जैसे दुराचारी के दूषित वचनों और नीतियों को
सिर्फ दैनिक भास्कर ही सुविचार समझ प्रचारित और प्रसारित कर सकता है...

वाह कलिनायक वाह..!!

ईमानदारी को जो सजा समझे होता ही नहीं उसमे ईमान
जहानियत को जो खुदा की खुदाई ना जाने कैसे कहें उसे इन्सान
हक़ीक़त से तड़प कर देखे जो स्वप्न जन्नत में सुकून का
नहीं देखा हमने उस से कोई नादान

सूफी अगर गिरने, कटने या मरने से डरे तो सूफी नहीं है
ऊपर-नीचे ये बड़े-छोटे के फर्क उसे हासिल नहीं है
होता है वो वहाँ जहाँ अहम् का सरोकार नहीं है

अभी ५ मई के दैनिक भास्करी सुविचार से बाहर आए ही थे
की ७ मई के दैनिक भास्करी सुविचार ने फिर करना चाहा बेडा गर्क
थियोडोर रूसवेल्ट का ये कथन छाप के

"लोगों के साथ सामंजस्य स्थापित कर पाना ही सफलता का एक अति महत्वपूर्ण सूत्र है."

फिर सवाल किया हमने प्रधान संपादक से की
सफल तो निर्मल बाबा, ए. राजा, दाऊद इब्राहीम और दैनिक भास्कर भी
लोगों का सामंजस्य पाकर हुए हैं जनाब...


क्या वे कबीर, आज़ाद, रॉबिनहुड या मिर्ज़ा ग़ालिब जैसे कभी सत्यवादी हुए हैं जनाब..??
कोई जवाब ना पाकर
हमने फिर अंग्रेजी में प्रश्न रूपांतरित कर पुछा की

Selfish SUCCESS of a Shah Rukh Khan is almost useless


Selfless SUCCESS of an Aamir Khan..??

Isn't it..??

सत्य मेव जयते

Many intellectual friends ask me to avoid noticing what Indian Dainik Bhaskar is upto and maintain my calm by remaining silent.

To such intellects I say what my guru Osho made me understand,

"Silence of an activist or an actualist is much more violent than violence of a terrorist."

" Choice to Choose what we want to do is always on our Soul and not on our Mind. Know that our soul is slave of our mind when we allow it to rule us."

Wednesday, May 2, 2012


A baby is born in Africa...
Tell me what is the color of is teeth..?






Babies are born without TEETH.
Moral : Don't apply your brain to answer natural questions.

What is Education..?

It is an organized system through which we waste half of our life to learn how to waste remaining half of life..!!
Failure is when we still continue to waste our time after learning what education is all about.

Who told you that time never waits for you to be righteous..?

Probably you are still not aware about time's oneness with life.

Do you know why Print & Electronis media avoids sharing reality with Indian readers and viewers..??

Well, try sharing an honest sms about them and you will know the reality.

What are great THINKERS..??

They are great philosophers. They think a lot about love and life but know not how to live life lovingly without having any meaning, result or opportunity to be successful.

I immediately come to know that I have said something very foolish when most people immediately agree with what i have said...
When they ask me to SHUT UP, I thank for God for His kindness to provide wisdom to me.

Our mind is unhappy about all those places and situations of which our body can not be part of
Our heart though makes our soul happy by trusting stupid illusion or imagination.
Mind though severely hates such Trust.

Nothing is unanswerable for God....
Not even an egoistic mortal who thinks himself and his question to be so.

True lovers do not block themselves with any worldly clause...
That is why I prefer lovers more than friends.

Relationships that do die either in LIFE or because of DEATH are as fake as person who wants to knoe reason or meaning of love...

Instead of telling, judging and deciding what people are, tell me what you are...

Loving back people those who love you is intelligent business
Loving them just because its your nature is godliness...

Listen to the initial and unreasonable voice of your heart even when your mind tells you that it is stupidity to let your heart rule your life.
Let mind care for PRESENTATION as worldly ppl do
LET heart care pure INTENTION. yourself really
but not a slave of your intellectual mind dear...
It turns you into a fake person.
Only you can stop your mind from ruling you.
I have no right to do so...

It is not about who will win or who will loose.
Only mindful people think about win or loss or about positive or negative thinking...
I mean it is only intellectual presence of a ruling mind that believes and decides oneness of life into two or more parts OR God's presence in two or more metaphysical forms.
Life or God appear in this form only to make us realize the intellectual illusion that our mind is part of.
Once we realize the truth we enjoy the blissfulness that one can enjoy in being completely aware & awake to NOW & HERE by being one with oneness.
God has not givenus LIFe to punish  us as intellectual mind often thinks and believes in.
This, in fact is the mystery of a mystic LIFE which only a mystic is able to show us...

Say willingly YES to LIFE as it is happening around you...
Life is indeed a celebration if your heart willingly says YES to Life.
Life helps you if you do so willingly...
Now you have willingly agreed to all that life wanted you to agree & hence LIFE now turns into a constant celebration...

Only a sleeping giant believes in a date being great, common or worst
I being best because of some special event happening as planned earlier...
Awaken one lives every moment of TIME withtowards LIFE.

To CHANGE yourself in order to get valued by surrounding society is poor Nirmal Baba's business...
To be yourself Normally and Naturally without any fear or greed whatsoever is godliness...

People who consider marriage instead of their original attitude towards love as guilty for their troubled married life. Love only to blame others in actuality.

People who want you to COMPROMISE in to be successful want you to be greedy, desperate and insecure like they are in actuality.
They think success comes only to those who listen to commercial and intelligent mind like they do.
Thay are not aware of the bliss, freedom and peace that an innocent heart brings.
Let them live their life the way they want to live
Never allow them to change your basic Nature...

Yes ! You are as flexible as you really feel you are.
General comments of others do not matter.

Believing in presence of GOD because of some reason is believing your mind's thinking rather than Trusting His omnipresence...
Truth appears when we stop having philosophical answers to intellectual questions...

I love to live life naturally rather than choosing to live life easily by allowing my mind to fake reality.
Truth appears difficult and fakeness appears easy to live with

Living every moment of life with with complete acceptance, awareness & awakeness of TIME that passes or LIFE that happens in our life is GOD DAY...
Expecting only good things to happen in FUTURE or rejecting our PAST brings Pain...